Establishing a day solely focused on you. What you're feeling, what you're seeing. Grounding the day with a "Just Us" mentality will truly allow you to be ever present in the moment without any distractions.
Instead of catering to guests and playing host throughout the day, you will be able to fully absorb the experience of joining together in marriage. No table rounds or meet+greets. This day is for you and you alone! Immersing in the warmth of a sunset, the dirt under your feet and the touch of your lover.
You value experiences over tanglible+monetary items. Foregoing investment in such things as grand venues and a multitude of decor will save you costs and allow you to incorporate the personal touches and aesthetic which represents you.
Go to that A-frame cabin in the woods, get that flight to a killer location, invest in vendors who will bring your dream to life.